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Week Thirty-Two
Published 08.26.2008 | Permanent Link | Comments (9)
Your Baby:
- Is about three pounds, 11 ounces and 16 inches long.
- Is starting to get pretty crowded in there, so you may feel more subtle, rolling-type movements instead of sharp pointy kicks.
You:
- May notice a slight change in your belly shape over the next few weeks -- kind of...downward sloping. Not so much of a nice shelf for your bowl of ice cream as you've had in the past.
- This change also might signal the retirement of some of your maternity clothes and you'll need longer shirts instead of just roomy shirts. I can pretty much guarantee that the shirts that no longer fit will be the cutest ones, dammit.
- STAY HYDRATED. KEEP YOUR FEET ELEVATED WHENEVER POSSIBLE. DON'T MAKE ME STOP THIS BLOG AND COME BACK THERE.
So! We had our first emergency visit to Labor & Delivery this week! Hooray! So glad I was able to check that one off of my to-do list.
I'm now officially 0-for-2 when it comes to Unnecessary Freaking Out Over Nothing Hospital Trips, since I went to Labor & Delivery at 23-ish weeks during my first pregnancy because I was convinced that I was leaking amniotic fluid. Which I was not. Was it mucus? Urine? I don't know. I don't really feel like I need to know. You know?
This time, it was blood and a lot of tenderness in my lower back. And in my head, I knew it was a urinary tract infection. (Pale pink, watery, only present after peeing.) I knew I could most likely wait until my doctor's office opened the next morning and everything would be fine. I had the doppler, I heard the heartbeat, I knew this baby occasionally has a quiet day with no real movement or kicking.
I also knew that if I didn't go to the hospital to get everything checked out, I would be wide awake all night, wracked with worry and fear and guilt and eventually I would probably work myself into a Total Freaking State sometime around 4 am and insist that we go to the hospital Right That Minute, so...in the grand scheme of things it seemed like going to the hospital at 9 pm instead was the SENSIBLE CHOICE.
And you know what? That's always the sensible choice. Don't ever, ever feel silly or foolish for calling your doctor after hours. Don't ever feel like you're inconveniencing anyone when you have even the slightest reason to worry that everything is not okay. I don't care if it's just a hunch or a "bad feeling." That baby is in YOUR BODY and you know best, even if you're just a terrified first-timer who mistakes gas for contractions. Call. Go. Get checked out.
I'm sure the doctors and nurses at L&D have seen it all -- every possible harmless symptom of neurotic paranoia...but also what happens when a mother DOES wait too long to get checked out. Guess which scenario they prefer.
In fact, one of the symptoms on the "Call Your Doctor Immediately, Do Not Pass Go, Do Not Collect $200" list the hospital discharged me with was, no lie, Complaint of "not feeling well." Well, that's certainly...specific.
And yet...clearly the only way the hospital is able to classify the mysterious yet invaluable diagnostic tool known as "mother's intuition." Yep, you've already got it, mama. Don't ever ignore it.
Oh Yeah, THIS: You know, I've had a lot of UTIs in my day. Dozens. Hundreds. Dozens of hundreds! And yet I've experienced blood in my urine exactly twice. While pregnant, both times. That seems distinctly not-cool to me. Don't I have enough to worry about going on down there?
New This Time Around: Thank God for AZO cranberry tablets and AZO at-home Urinary Tract Infection Test Strips. The tablets are easier to remember AND choke down than gallon after gallon of cranberry juice, and the test strips at least give me an indication of how my body is fighting off the infection. (Currently: white blood cell count is still SLIGHTLY elevated, indicating things are still a tad inflamed, but the nitrate test is negative for bacteria.) (I'm sorry, did you not WANT to hear about my pee, or something?)
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Comments (9):
Sarah said:
Wait...are you, like, not allowed to take antibiotics? Because you're pregnant?
Ohmahgawdimgonnadie. I'm going to have to use a surrogate. There is no flipping way I'm going to be able to just LIVE with a UTI and try to treat it with cranberry pills. Holy shit. Um, feel better!
Posted on August 27, 2008 08:29
Ulla said:
Sarah, I believe it's because Amy is allergic to a lot of antibiotics.
I know this because apparently I am stalker with very good memory.
Posted on August 27, 2008 10:40
qwyneth said:
Yeah, I wish I'd done this. A couple weeks ago I had FLAMING constipation. It hurt to walk. It hurt to try and go to the bathroom. It hurt to breathe. I hadn't pooped substantively in well over a week and nothing worked--not fiber, not liquids, not stool softeners, not suppositories. My doctor's appointment had been canceled because her father died and she had to go out of the country, and the nurse was being NO help.
The thing was, it didn't hurt in my rectum (like the nurse assumed, whenever she bothered to call me back), it hurt in my abdomen. As it got worse and worse and worse I became convinced I had a severe obstruction or I was in preterm labor. But I was terrifically embarrassed of calling the after hours line over so ridiculous and minor a thing as constipation.
Luckily an enema finally cleared things up and the pain subsided, but hell, I wish I'd not spent that week of awful pain and freaked-outedness.
Posted on August 27, 2008 10:44
obabe said:
you TOTALLY can take (some) anitbiotics when pregnant. i had so many UTIs back to back my first pregnancy that by 15 weeks i was on an anitbiotic once a day for the REST of the pregnancy to ward them off.
UTIs suck.
Posted on August 27, 2008 20:47
Lauren said:
As someone who used to work on the L&D Floor, please don't wait. Yes, the Mom-Who-Freaks-About-Nothing may be slightly annoying, but she is a Million times better then the Mom who's 8 months pregnant, doesn't feel her child move for 3 days, but doesn't call because she didn't want to "be a bother" - your heart breaks when she walks by, crying, hand in her husbands, knowing she's about to spend 15 hours in labor so she can bury her child. DO NOT WAIT. Be a bother, be a royal-pain-in-the-ass, be annoying. Call 50 times a day. Whatever it takes to make sure you'er okay and you're baby is okay. Even the annoyed nurses would rather that then a child in danger.
Posted on August 28, 2008 09:25
Amalah said:
Yes, antibiotics are not much of an option for me, because I am a Freak. Allergic to pretty much ALL the common ones, including ones that generally "work" on UTIs. I took some weird one in the first trimester during my first pregnancy for a UTI, but it was one that isn't recommended for the third trimester.
Most of the time doctors just look at my allergy list and apologize because there's just nothing they feel safe prescribing, unless I'm in the hospital and can take in through an IV while being monitored. (Like after my c-section. They had to special order some super-expensive one from the depths of the hospital pharmacy -- I saw on the insurance forms that it cost over $1000 a bag. Sweet.)
Posted on August 28, 2008 10:20
M said:
Amalah,
I just want to say thank you! I'm currently 17 weeks pregnant, and am suffering from a UTI (I so feel your pain). But that's not even the worst of it- my boyfriend just left for Iraq on Wednesday and won't be back until the end of March/beginning of April. I'm due at the beginning of February and will be all alone.
So thank you for giving me something to read week by week. I've tried reading other pregnancy calendars and they're lame and not funny at all.
I've been a reader of your blog for years!
Posted on August 30, 2008 21:28
charlotte said:
Thanks, Lauren, for that comment! Yeah, I had a scare with high blood pressure just last week and ended up in L&D--and I'm usually the person who doesn't want to be a bother. It took my best friend to convince me to go to the emergency room.
Of course, the only thing the nurses did was lay me down, rehydrate me (I was totally dehydrated) and watch my bp go down slowly again. Still, even when I confessed to my ob/gyn what had happened, he told me I'd done exactly the right thing. Kewl to know that the community is so understanding!
Posted on September 3, 2008 19:39
Breezy said:
I, apparently, am trying to copy Amy in her fears/bleeding/freaking out/ER visits. I was admitted to L & D to be "checked out" and "monitored" at 29 weeks. Yeah, a frickin' yeast infection. I have never had even one until becoming pregnant and both times I had bleeding! AM A FREAK! The doctor and nurse both reassured me that I should always call and that I did the right thing. I enjoyed (har har) a 6 hour stay on a Saturday watching movies and eating hospital food in my backless gown =)
The nurse informed me that I should get used to it, because once baby is born parents inevitably are convinced their kid is sick, complete with fever et al. only to show up at the pediatricians office and the kid is running around like nothing is wrong...the joys of looking like a freak. At least I'm not alone!
Posted on September 24, 2008 16:31